Review
Genre and Mood
Bob Moses built their name on music that lives between the club and the bedroom, and Tearing Me Up is the purest example. It is deep house with an indie songwriter’s heart, electronic in its patience and pulse but sung like a confession. The mood is hypnotic and melancholic, full of a longing that the groove keeps circling without ever resolving.
Song Summary
The song is about a relationship that hurts more than it helps, and the arrangement mirrors that slow ache. A steady kick, a rolling bassline and moody, chiming guitar figures create a hypnotic bed, while Tom Howie’s low, smoky vocal sits right on top of it. The album version runs nearly eight minutes, letting the tension simmer instead of chasing a drop. What makes it memorable is that restraint: it feels like a song about to boil over that chooses, again and again, to stay at a simmer.
Musical Breakdown
The track grows by accumulation, one layer at a time, as good deep house does.
Intro
A soft kick and a muffled bass pulse arrive first, joined by shimmering textures before any voice appears.
Verse 1
Howie’s voice enters close and weary, phrasing the lyric with a singer-songwriter’s ease. The guitar picks out small, melancholy figures around him.
Chorus
The refrain lands with quiet force as the bass deepens. It is less a release than a deeper dive into the same feeling.
Main Section
Long instrumental stretches let the groove do the talking: percussion shuffles, synthesizers swell and recede, and the guitar loops into a trance-like pattern.
Outro
The layers fall away gradually, leaving the kick and a few ghostly echoes of the hook, a slow fade rather than an ending.
Concepts in Focus
Underneath everything is the four-on-the-floor kick of house music: one beat on every count, steady from start to finish. Bob Moses treat it as a floor, not a feature. Because the pulse never changes, every small movement in the guitar, the bass or Howie’s voice becomes the event, and the length of the album version turns that steadiness into tension.
The song’s biggest award went to a remix. RAC’s reworking of Tearing Me Up won the Grammy for Best Remixed Recording in February 2017, while the original was nominated for Best Dance Recording. A remixer keeps the vocal and rebuilds what is around it; comparing the two versions shows how much of this song’s sadness lives in the production rather than in the words.
The music video, directed by Zack Spiger and shot in Paris, tells a dark, intimate love story, and reviewers counted it among the more memorable clips of 2015. It gives faces to a lyric that is otherwise only a voice in the dark.
Artistic Context
Bob Moses are Tom Howie and Jimmy Vallance, who had attended the same school in Vancouver without being close and met again by chance in New York, where they began making records that fuse live guitar and vocals with deep house production. Their name was suggested by Francis Harris of the Scissor and Thread crew, after the urban planner Robert Moses. Tearing Me Up appears on their debut album Days Gone By, released on Domino on 18 September 2015, and it became their breakthrough; both members wrote and produced it.
Impact and Reception
The track carried Bob Moses from underground clubs to rock radio and festival stages: it reached number 16 on Billboard’s Alternative Songs chart and number 9 on the Canadian alternative chart, an unusual path for a deep house record. It earned a Grammy nomination for Best Dance Recording, and RAC’s remix won Best Remixed Recording. It is here because few tracks capture heartbreak on a dancefloor so precisely. Give it the full eight minutes, ideally late at night, and let it get under your skin.
